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How come white male/asian female & black female relationships are portayed as good? but black male with white female is portrayed as bad and asian male with white female is almost never present in media even though it isnt rare
and they are rarely even portrayed in movies,tv shows
seems white men like ******* asian girls,black girls but they dont like black/asian men ******* white girls.
am i wrong? | Guy with picture of cat as his avatar:
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There's the real story behind those pics so you can stop crying now. | Some big black man who moved in next door is ******* my mom every night but she told me not to tell my dad? but dad ask me what is mom doing when he at work...what do i do? | It sounds like your mum and dad are having a few trust issues. I can sort of relate. My parents are divorced and are always asking questions about each other. It is annoying! Be evasive when he asks about her. Confront your mum and ask her about the neighbor instead of just telling your dad because he may not believe you. Try to get your mum to stop or at least to tell your father. If she refuses then try to set a few traps for your father eg. maybe your neighbor left his underwear in your mums room, there not his and they don't fit you so he may start to question things, that sort of thing. Your father, however hard it may be for him to believe, has the right to know and it is best to come from her.
Hope this helps and hope i don't get you in trouble. | A question for Black men.? I was at the grocery store today, and noticed something.
It was full of black women. Every one of them had a guy(or more).
Not a single one of them was wearing a wedding band. Not one.
I just think it's kind of ironic that damn near 80 percent of black women (in my area)have guys, yet damn near 80 percent of black men (in my area) are not married. Go figure. I really wouldn't give a damn, but it pisses me off that I'm unusual(30 year old black woman, never married, no ******* guys.) My question is: Do black men ever seriously contemplate marriage? Or are they happier going from woman to woman knocking everybody up? It's a harsh question, I know; but I'm curious. For the record, I don't hate black men, but I won't date anyone with guys, and that pretty much cancels them out. | | Why do you not date men with guys? Are you too self-centered to "share" a man with his guyren? You may be passing up a good man by making this choice. Secondly, not every black woman wants to be married either. Their are plenty of women of all races that are choosing to raise a guy alone. Lastly, it is too bad that you haven't had a good experience with black men, but that is no reason to assume that black men don't want to be in committed relationships. They have to find a woman who is worth spending the rest of their lives with. | Black men hate to see Black women in interracial relationships, why? I MEAN REALLY. I have never seen such hypocrites in my life. For instance, Im Black and my bf is white and when we go out, Black men give him the death stare. Like, I dont say anything when they date the white girs. So why hate on me? I mean, one I really dont date Black men because the ones I have been around are very cocky for no reason. Tyson Beckford has a right to be cocky, Lil wayne, not so much. Its like the lil wayne types, really dumb and really ghetto, that I dont like. But I dont hate on them though, I let them do them, so dont ******* hate on me. I have dated Black men in the past, like in high school and alot of them come up to me still while Im in college. It came to the point where I was tired of hearing "you're pretty for a dark skin girl", which is PREJUDICE. Im using their phrase now, I JUST DONT PERFER black guys. My dad is black, and I have 5 black brothers, whom I love to death. I just REFUSE TO BE DISRESPECTED! | Well, we already know that black women who date white guys will ALWAYS get crap from black guys (I've explained it in one of my posts and I'm not getting into it again).
The "Lil Wayne, skinny @ss punks" are usually worse. They're only puttin' up a front thinking "they're all that" because they ain't got nuthin' to show for LOL Ignore them.
Still, don't hate on your own race because you see so many of them who are not worth knowing. There ARE black men who have a high, self-esteem and won't disrespect you. They may be rare (just like other races), but they are out there and you just gotta look for them :) | Why do black men perfer white women over black women? Why is it that black famous men like o;j simpson and tiger woods and others have wife wifes and girlfriends,when they can have their pick of beauiful smart black women?Is it because white women will take the s-h-i-t they hand out,and black women won't? I see these white women on the maurey show on t.v with black boyfriends or husbands,that cheat on them and abuse them and they still stay with them.Do they have a death wish these white women?Look what happened to Nicole Brown o.j's wife. Women may be smart but they have no ******* common sense period! | cbmaclean and you foolish are indeed acting foolish with this question. Come on! This is silly. If they are on the Maury show then they already have problems, right? The Maury show is not the place to take a sample of mixed raced relationships, nor is the Jerry Springer the show to take a sample on any relationship or way of liffe!! These shows are for entertainment and the only people they can get come on, or who they even want to come on is people who are poor and were not taught how to behave of live life respectfully. Many of these poor folks(by poor, I don't mean money wise) are simply uneducated, damaged individuals who grew up in seriously dysfunctional homes. You just can not take those who appear on these types of shows as a representitive of any race or sex. The behaviors of these folks is sad, tragic, and not to be made fun of as the pain if very real.
Now, back to this black men prefer white women. I have read many studies regarding this. Studies of black men who try to explain why they prefer while women over black. Though why limit yourself to one type of person is beyound me as there are many many wonderful people of all races. These black men state that black women attempt to walk all over them and take away their manhood. That many black women come on way too strong and end up acting like men. This turns them off so they say. These men state they don't like living in constant strife and this is what they found when they dated or had relationships with black women.
Regardless, this is about racism this question. I do not support racism in any shape of form. If somebody falls in love with a person, their race should be the last thing considered. Love, real love trancends race and color. I suggest you begin taking your own inventory and stop looking for reasons to hate others. Life is about growth, learning to accept others is growth. Hate is the opposite of growth, it sucks a persons life blood and stunts any possible growth of the spirit.
Focus on your own personal and spirtual growth and let the anger over what you perceive as an injustice fade away. Nothing in this life is fair, and we can't change anybody but ourselves. If we focus on what is really important, which in my opinion is finding an ability to accept others even when we don't agree with them, finding what it is which satisfys our own spirits and allowing ourselves to forgive transgressions is the way towards real happiness and peace. When we forgive we forgive for ourselves not the one we are forgiving. When we keep anger and hatred alive we are only hurting ourselves not the one we are angry against nor the one we hate. Our anger and hate has little if any impact on those it is directed towards which leads it to turning inwards, which poisons and consumes our happiness and lives.
I am sure there are those who allow themselves to be treated poorly regardless of the color of their partner who is dishing out the abuse. I know for a fact our batterd women's shelters are full of women of all colors with husbands of all colors, as I have worked in these institutions. I also know that drug and alcohol addiction leads to abuse and those addicted are from all walks of life, without regard to race, color, creed, religion, age, sex, socio-ecconomical situation. We all are affected by abuse in this nation, not just the abused and the abusers.
I also know there are many loving inter-racial marriages in which both partners treat each other with great respect, honor and love. If we come from a dysfunctional background we tend to become dysfunctional. However, it is up to each as an adult to choose to carry on the cycle of dysfunction or to seek out a different path for themselves and their guyren, thus breaking that cycle. It may take a few generations to completely break the cycle but it IS a person choice each adult makes on his/her own. I strongly suggest we, as humans, seek what is kind, caring, non-judging and beautiful in life rather than that which is ugly and hateful.
Bless you for your attempt to bring forth an issue so charged as this. I sincerelly hope you will be able to see the error of this statement you have made, see how racist it truly is, how unfair to judge all by the actions of a few, and work dillegently to learn the truth and become less consummed with anger and hurt over what you perceive as an injustice. I truly wish you happiness and a wonderfull husband who you can honor, respect and find an abiding love with, regardless of his race. | Why are black men more confrontational in general? This is a question directed mainly at other black men because hopefully they can answer it best. I'm white, 180lb and 5'7". I work out regularly and am pretty athletic and muscular.When I walk somewhere and there's a black dude walking in the opposite direction towards me, I notice ( and this happens a LOT) he will either walk straight at me like he expects me to move out of his way, or he might even go a little out of his way to head me off. This is something I've seen time and time again and I'm wondering what's up with it. I'm not even making prolonged eye contact or anything, so all I can think is they're looking for a confrontation. It happens with white guys too but not quite as much. Is this basically a macho show down because I'm a built white guy? Black girls do it sometimes too! lol I move for them but not the dudes. What's up fellas? You got something to prove to me? I'm not gonna lie it gives me stereotypes and negative feelings toward certain people. I don't like assholes in general no matter who you are but I just see what I just described more frequently among certain ethnic groups. Black men in general are more cocky and have more of that attitude than asians, hispanics, and whites. Some black men are cool as hell but the blackitude is ******* obnoxious | | this isn't racist at all..it's just how the majority of black people are,people see this as racist of course,but sometimes it's just the hard truth..I've seen it and have been through it...I'm hispanic and i live in a predominantly black neighborhood...it's nothing crazy to see that type of behavior,but i don't stress over it...i just don't get involved with it | Why do young black men love the material life more than saving? I work at target in new york overnight.... now you automatically make about 12 an hour starting off plus they offer health benefits... but I want to know I always hear the young black men say as soon as they get there check they spend the whole thing on a gucci coat or Jordan's just material things. than when I go SHOPPING for a decent no name brand Conservative look to save my money I get made fun of. but the same people who make fun of me are the ones that ask me for money for lunch when we get paid on friday and we go back to work the next day... so why do young black men love the material life more thansavingg for the future?
You can still look good and save money... and i get the point about you cant die with money im not saying become a millionair but what do you expect me to say when me and you get the same paycheck and the day after payday your asking me for money for food but yet your showing everybody pics of some brandnew gucci shoes you just bought.
Also in the end no self respecting women is going to want someone who is dressing nice but doesnt have any money to go out so in the end your truly ******* youself. | Only TODAY matters...!!!! "We'll worry about tomorrow when it comes..."...Bad philosophy, but that's all I'll say, because I'm not permitted to say what's in my heart and head...!!!
Rachelle In High Heels | Are all black men criminals? People try to be politically correct all the ******* time, but doesn't it seem like EVERY single black guy is involved with crime? Seriously stop being nice and just put all of them in jail. Crime would be much better. Maybe even totally gone. | | Nope.. | What can I do about people ******* with my car? I got a Maserati for Christmas. I live in Gainsville Florida (I am a medical student). There are a lot of crime here, bums everywhere.
Ever since I brought it up here, there have been black men and some women walking around my car and looking at it. I can't help but think they are going to try and **** with it.
Any advice? | put it in storage and get something that isn't such a phallic symbol.
you got it for attention so seems kinda funny that you are complaining cause it is getting attention.
don't buy a new car and don't get something so dam showy till you have your own practice with rich people - that is how life works. | How do I talk back to men who make comments on my body when I'm outside? I live in a city and lots of the black men get real noisy when I walk by, commenting on my "booty" or any of my other body parts. I'm a really shy and tiny person, how can I talk back to them? Maybe ignoring them would be the best thing but I feel like ******* hurting or something. | | Kick 'em in the nuts. |
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